Single Moms Dating Advice



Riding Bareback – Sex Without Condoms

We’ve all heard that sex with condom ‘doesn’t feel as good’ and that some people ‘need it raw’, but having unprotected sex nowadays is just plain stupid. Never mind the whole issue of unwanted pregnancy which as single moms; you know what I’m talkin’ about, but what about the diseases?! You’re putting your life on the line every time you give in to that few minutes of feeling good without a condom or listen to some jackass who cries to you about not being able to come with a condom on!

Is my stance on sex-without-condoms becoming clear yet? Need another good reason? How about your child(ren)? What happens to them if mommy decides to be stupid and catch a disease? What kind of example do you set if you wind up pregnant outside of a loving relationship again?

When it comes to finding true love, you’re hope is to end up with someone who you can trust wholeheartedly, but until you’ve seen proof that he’s clean; there is just too much at stake to take that risk. It’s hard to always resist the temptation when you’re in the heat of the moment or when you run out of condoms and only realize it when you’re about to get down to business, but even then; when he’s got a pout on his beautiful face and you’ve got a puddle between your legs; you need to be strong and say no for your sake, his sake and your kids sake.

I’m not saying that you should rule out condom-free sex forever; I think it’s fine once your married, but even then you need to be certain that he is clean and listen to your gut if it’s telling you that something is off. We as women need to learn to listen to our instinct more often. Just because he has put a ring on your finger and pledged his fidelity doesn’t mean that he really will be faithful. If he gives you the slightest indication that something is going on, then you need to take that to heart and take care of yourself. Not all men will cheat, but sadly it does happen and the ones who end up suffering is usually the wife.

You can make condoms fun and even sexy by finding ways to incorporate them into foreplay; rolling a flavored condom onto him with your lips for instance, or continuing to stroke him with one hand while rolling on the condom with the other. This will keep him hard so your play time can go uninterrupted.

No matter what your take is on condoms; in this day and age you’re always better to be safe than sorry, especially when you’re a single mom who has someone relying on you. Don’t let any boyfriend talk you into doing something that puts your life in jeopardy. No man is worth that. Period.


Comments

  1. * vantheman55 says:

    stupid don’t do it ????

    | Reply Posted 5 years, 9 months ago


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