I Should Have Gotten off AskMen.com While I Was Ahead

After singing the praises of AskMen.com for their great article on dating single moms; I came across their advice for ‘scoring a divorcee’. It’s a part of something they call the ‘Players Guide’—as if being a lying ass is anything to be proud of—and goes on to explain how to basically wine and dine her in order to reap the benefits of screwing a woman who just came out of a potentially boring or controlled marriage!

The article basically portrays divorcees as experienced women who are so starved for attention that they border on desperate and somewhat easy! Then the writer refers to us as ‘minivan-driving, coupon clippers’ who will basically be won over easily if a man spends a few more bucks and shows us what the ‘high life’ feels like! It even goes as far as to advise men to be spontaneous and show her a good time that is the opposite of marriage so that you can convince her that single life is better so that he can really score big.

As a woman who has made all kinds of mistakes in dating, I guess I really can’t do too much judging here, but I can tell you that with some of the jerks, I have a better understanding of where they were getting their dating tips and what may have actually made them jerks! LOL

There was actually an entire list of different advice articles for ‘Players’ and you need to sign up and become a member of the ‘Players Guide’ in order to read the entire piece. Stuff like: Juggling Multiple Women, How to Score Two Women in One Day and my personal favorite, Sleeping With Cougars!

Ladies, I think that by finding these articles I may have discovered the answer to the question that women have been asking for centuries—why are men such jerks?? Now I know why; because these articles are out there telling them that this is the way to behave! Whew—here we were starting to wonder if it was just us.

I’m not knocking all of the content on the site because as mentioned earlier; they did offer some very helpful advice and made some excellent points about dating single moms. For the most part, their love advice seems on track; it’s the ‘Player’s Guide’ that leaves much to be desired. And I pity any man who thinks that he’ll get anything/anyone of quality with those moves. LOL

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