Why Have Men Become So Passive In Their Pursuit of Women?

What happened to the days of men being more aggressive in their pursuit of a woman they were interested in? Doesn’t it seem as though men aren’t as forward as they used to be in terms of asking women out? What happened to their manhood? Where have the balls gone??

When you think about the way women have changed over the years, I think it has much to do with the change in men. Women have become far too willing to make the first move and give it up to men too easily, so why should men take the initiative an put effort into the pursuit when so many women are making it so damn easy for them?!

Women used to understand that the way men are built makes them thrive on the challenge and the pursuit of a woman. The longer she would make him wait, the more he would try to win her over and impress her. Now, women have become more independent and accustom to going after what they want in their lives and careers and unfortunately they’ve carried this over into dating and are actively pursuing—chasing—men and giving up way too much, way too soon which leaves little for the man to do. Men are becoming passive in their pursuit of women because sex seems to come to them now on a damn silver platter! And yes, I’m sure you’re expecting me to use my favorite saying, so I will; why buy the milk when you’ve got the cow for free?!

I cannot stress enough that men are wired to want, need and enjoy the challenge of winning a women and earning all of the privileges that come with that, like attention, affection and sex, but as much as they like that chase, they’d be idiots to not take things that come to them easy. So when they get used to women paying attention, chasing them and having sex with them nice and easy without any effort on their part. Mind you, these women who give it up easily are only around for a short time because the man gets bored, but unfortunately it’s kind of spoiling it for the rest of us and making men passive and lazy!

When things are easily accessible and in unlimited quantities; they tend to be taken for granted and lose value and this applies to women and sex. This is not to say that all men are passive or sucked into waiting around for what’s easy, but it certainly has played a part in dating going the way it has. Courtship isn’t what it used to be because women aren’t what they used to be.

Being a strong, independent woman who goes after what she wants is not a bad thing, but when you take it too far and feel the need to take care of everything yourself; you end up making a man feel no need to woo you because you’re so quick to do all the work yourself. You take away the challenge that they love and deprive yourself of the attention that you deserve. There is nothing wrong with a woman letting the man wear the pants once in a while!

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